This is the outlook for 2014: So far, the first week of 2014 has brought in peace. I’m able to do the things that I love to. I’ve created a few outfits that I may not be able to wear right now, but both items are good practice for when I start to design for myself. Although this holiday season when by so quickly, it was the most relaxing one in a few years. The kids didn’t get on my nerves too much and I was able to speak my mind and not hold all of my thoughts in when they did things to irritate me.
On the social front…. I’m happy in my current “friendless” status. I’ve yet to meet someone here that I’m willing to share any of my secrets with here. Not that I would share my inner secrets with anyone. I’ve noticed that some women here think that you need to have “friends” and if you don’t, there is something wrong with you for not having friends.
I beg to differ. If you don’t like the activities that the group is doing, you don’t have to be part of that group. If you are not on the same path with others, you must stay on your own path. But it is funny that others want to throw into your face something that they value that you really don’t value, and how that by throwing it into your face, you will feel bad about yourself. The only affect that throwing it around is humor. If you don’t place the same weight on someone else’s value, it doesn’t hurt when you don’t have that in your own life. It’s funny that they think that you should care.
It’s like me putting others down because they are not into Sacred Geometry or wonder why they don’t spend more time sewing or reading….. Friendships are overrated. I’m not part of “groupthink” and that “guilt/harassment” ship has sailed.
Live life SkyyHigh!!